When I was in the Amalfi Coast in Italy, my friends and I wandered to a deserted beach. With the clear blue water in front of us and the rocky cliffs around us, the idea of cliff jumping easily came to mind. After a bit of time had passed, the most adventurous in our group spotted the path to the top of the cliff walls. Before I realized what I was doing, I found myself climbing up the ledge following the other few who dared to venture to the top. As an incredibly fearful person who doesn’t like heights, peer pressure was a big motivating factor. We all started at the bottom and worked our way up.
I could feel fear taking over and the adrenaline pumping through my veins.
While they may seem the same, to a person with anxiety, the difference between fear versus anxiety are huge. My fears occur naturally all of the time, but my anxiety occurs during unusually mundane situations.
As a guest at my friend’s wedding, I was suddenly stricken by anxiety’s unforgiving grip. I felt the need to run away and escape. My wedding guest anxiety flipped on and off throughout the night. In contrast to this wedding, I was a bridesmaid in another wedding and feared for the worst since my anxiety had hit me so hard at the last wedding.
A few weekends ago, I joined my friend from high school for her bachelorette party in Nashville, Tennessee. Having never been to the Music City (or a bachelorette party for that matter), I was not sure what to expect. But after a long, exciting weekend in the Country Music Capital of the World, I figured I would share what I learned.
Where to Stay in Nashville
We opted to stay in an Airbnb rather than a hotel. With a hotel we would have either had to spend a fortune on a giant suite or deal with separate rooms that could be on different
floors entirely. An Airbnb allowed us to comfortably pregame and get ready together. Our house was kick-ass and leaned into the Nashville theme with its decor. It was a couple of minutes from the main road in the cute neighborhood of 12 South. (I highly recommend walking this area if you have time. Read on for more information.)
The downfall to Airbnb is that they are usually a little farther from downtown. We had to take turns ordering a Lyft or Uber to go anywhere. The prices were anywhere from $10-$25 to get downtown for an XL, but be mindful of the surcharge times. (**Note- We consistently found Lyft to be slightly cheaper than Uber. )
If your check in is too late or your check out is too early, there is an alternative to lugging around all of your heavy bags. Try the Stow Station.
What to do for a Nashville Bachelorette Party
Going Out in Nashville
What is a bachelorette party without a few drinks and possibly some questionable decisions? Luckily Nashville has no shortage of places for a night out on the town with your girlfriends.
Just a year ago, I began what became not just an amazing adventure but also an eye-opening revelation about my own secrets that I never knew existed. Australia wasn’t just a trip; it was an awakening. It was a realization of what makes me happy.
The Land Down Under ignited the flame of desire for a life of travel and writing. Now the embers burn brightly each day, and sometimes I feel like the fire will consume me. Sometimes I feel like my life isn’t mine. If I only discovered this fire sooner and wasn’t so afraid of getting burned, would my life be completely different? Maybe I would be in the Peace Corps. Maybe I’d still be in Australia. Maybe I’d be living in South America.
When it comes to any trips I take, the reality is that my boyfriend and I will have to deal with surviving a long-distance relationship. We have done it in college over the summer, and we have done it whenever I have chosen to travel like my trip to Australia. While we have been fortunate enough not to deal with a long-distance relationship for too long, we have learned a few tricks. Continue reading “Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship”→
As someone who has always suffered from anxiety, I can tell you that I dread job interviews. They would literally keep me up at night. When I graduated from college and began my search for my first “big girl job,” every interview was a torturous 30 minutes where I felt like my anxiety had complete control.
After quite a few horrible (and I mean horrible) interviews, I got serious and figured out a few tricks to help keep my anxiety at bay. I went from a stuttering nervous idiot to “nailing the interview” according to my last employer. I’d like to pass on my knowledge because no one should let their anxiety stop them from getting their dream job. Continue reading “Surviving A Job Interview With Anxiety”→
As my days in Tampa dwindled to a close, I scrambled to do everything I never found time to do before. As a resident of the Tampa Bay area for six years, I had certainly had my fair share of Tampa adventures, but now time was running out. I remembered hearing whispers of a market at a temple. After finding a magnificent Chinese temple outside of Melbourne, Australia, I was excited to find this Buddhist temple in Tampa. My last Sunday in the Bay area, I finally made it to the Wat Thai Temple in Tampa.
Wat Thai Temple Sunday Food Market
On Sundays the temple features a popular food market (cash only) open from 8:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. My boyfriend and I came around noon for lunch. The market itself features a variety of food stands with everything from delicious Thai entrees to traditional desserts. We browsed all of the stands under the pavilion before making our choices. Continue reading “Thai Temple in Tampa”→